How to Avoid a Grudge
Grudges and marriages do not happy partners make. Not everyone carries a grudge, but many of us may whether we are aware of it or not. When you carry a grudge, you invite the grudge and the negativity associated with it to move into your marriage with you and your spouse. When you invite a grudge into your relationship, you add the variety of spice that are paybacks, petty remarks and revenge. The negativity on both sides is far from constructive and loving – carrying a grudge is not in the vows you took to get married and the disharmony … Continue reading