Is Your Daughter Into Video Games?

If you answered “yes,” then you probably already know how challenging it is to find quality games that don’t promote stereotypical interests such as fashion and make up. On the other hand, if your daughter is interested in violent games featuring guns, warriors and knife-wielding car thieves, or ones that focus on male dominated sports such as football, boxing and baseball, then you’re probably broke by now. So, either way you’ve got issues. Despite the limited amount of video games tailored specifically to girls, child psychologists recommend parents not discourage their daughter’s interest in gaming. Rather, they recommend getting involved … Continue reading

Does your Daughter get Sexually Harassed at School?

Sexual harassment can take many different forms, however, all actions are based on the social construction of inherited male power and gender conditioning. Unsolicited and unreciprocated male sexual behavior, directed toward females, is often regarded by some as a normal male practice. Such learned functioning undermines the autonomy of women and girls. This cannot remain unchallenged because it is hurting our daughters and affecting their learning at school. Sexual harassment occurs in school settings too, between male teacher to female student, male student to female teacher and from student to student. Australian research has shown a dominant school culture where … Continue reading

Don’t Give Up on Discipline

Discipline can be one of the first things to go for the frazzled single parent. After all, we just get too darned tired or overwhelmed or, if we’ve got more than one child, we may feel completely out-numbered. But, the truth is, we single parents really NEED discipline and we need to maintain some order and authority with our kids. When I talk of discipline, I’m not talking about punishment—I’m talking about structure and rules and expectations and follow through when it comes to consequences. One of the myths and stereotypes of single parents is that our kids run free … Continue reading